Since the February bridge holiday, my
interest in the game increased significantly. I started to play intermediate
bridge and this means that I was invited to play in the room where people play
bridge without a social chit chat. It suits me as silence is necessary to really
concentrate and I need that to be able to recall rules and conventions I should
know and remember. This is not all that easy for me, at least not yet. I came
across the statement that I like very much "One
of the reasons bridge continues to fascinate players all over the world is
that, in order to become even sort of good at it, you have to be willing to be
bad at it for a long time".
This knowledge provides me with a great excuse and encouragement
when I make mistakes, and I do make them plenty. Now I know that I am on my way
to play well as I am willing to play badly. Only for some time, I hope.
My Monday partner, who invited me to play with her, is
a very kind lady and a good player. She points
out my mistakes from time to time and since she is doing it nicely and
constructively I do not get upset about it. I just learn.
This morning I woke up realizing that I had been
dreaming about the last Monday memorable bidding. I must have been
re-calculating the game points just before I woke up. In reality we played slam in
hearts and I was bidding it! It was a simple bidding really, we had great cards
and almost all other players landed up
in a slam contract. For me, however, it was the first time to lead an auction
that finished with a slam. As I could not share my emotions until the
game was over (I took all tricks – grand slam), my adrenaline was going up and
up in silence. When we finished I said quietly – I almost got a heart attack.
Partners laughed in a friendly way. They perhaps have not played for a while with
such an honest novice.
Even if it was quite an achievement for me, I
understood that it was not a maximum result. We got only 20%. We
should have really played grand slam in No Trumps. This would bring the maximum
points with our hands. The situation must have been stored in my subconscious
and in my dream I was calculating points to figure out optimal biding. My partner
first bid was 1NT and this means 15 to 17 points. I had 16 points so I asked
for aces. My partner had two of them and this was enough for my poor heart, so
I finished the bidding with slam in hearts. All up, there are 40 honour points so as far as I knew we were
missing 9. In my dream I was trying to figure out where the missing 9 points
should have been. This is kind of crazy, but great at the same time. Now when somebody
asks me about my passion, I can say without hesitation – bridge!
I loved this post, and particularly the phrase "honest novice". I may not appear in your estimation as such, but this is how I think of myself regarding life as a whole; I very much identify with those words.
ReplyDeleteGood luck with the bridge; and thank you for such a succinct phrase.
kvd
Thank you, kvd, for your encouraging comment. It is really nice when somebody like you picks up a better phrase in my writing or a hidden meaning. I just wrote “somebody like you”, you say “may not appear in your estimation as …”, but neither of us knows all that much about the other person to make such statements. Looks like we have some images in our heads but they can not be accurate. It is fun, though, to put characterological puzzle together even if the picture might be somewhat distorted.
DeleteTo be an honest novice regarding life is fantastic at any age and from your earlier comments I know that you are not a teenager and still have fresh approach to life :).
Enjoy your passion and keep getting better at it.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Ramana. I am learning each day. It is more and more fun.
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